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14 May (Part 2) - Scorned

Several years ago I became quite friendly with a woman - no, not like that - and we shared a few secrets, a few more glasses of wine together, did each other the occasional favour, exchanged emails and had fairly frequent long telephone conversations. Her mobile number still features on my list of regularly called numbers.

Then I discovered that she was not what she had seemed to be. Beneath the smooth exterior there was a liar, probably a thief and definitely a forger of letters. Foolishly perhaps, I let a few details slip to mutual friends and showed them the evidence.

The result was that my female friend reported me to the police and signed an extraordinary false statement which the police should have seen was untrue by simply comparing the conflicting statements contained within it. But plod, reliably unintelligent as always, decided to charge me with making false statements and summonsed me to Court.

Everything was a tissue of lies but it blighted my life at the time and for several years afterwards.

It is with this in mind that I will not be commenting on the news that so many people were keen to tell me about yesterday. I have been hearing about this latest case of friends falling out for the past couple of months and the story is not unlike my own experience. I do not know where the truth lies. In my own case it was clear cut, the woman in question who now claims to be a reformed character, had put her name to several very obvious lies, but this new dispute does not rely on the written word, so potentially more difficult.

I will not be speculating on accusations which are now in the public domain.

 

14 May (Part 1) - A correction

Yesterday’s photo of Bexley’s longest pothole was taken from an email which @tonyofsidcup sent to Councillor Lisa Moore (Longlands) on 12th May. I assumed that it must be a recent photograph, but I was wrong. Yesterday Lisa sent @tony an up-to-date photo and explained that the road had already been resurfaced and would have been done earlier if it was not for Greenwich Council and TfL sticking their oars in.

Councillor Cameron Smith, Chairman of the Transport Sub-Committee, sent me what was essentially the same message, that the road was resurfaced more than a week ago using part of the £4·5 million the Council allocated to road improvements.
The Longest pothole - fixed!

 

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